Are you faking it? Either to protect your partner's ego, or you're embarrassed, or ashamed to face the fact that you have never reached an orgasm. Are we afraid our partners will reject us if we don't 'come'? A lot of us choose to fake it.
It's a fact that 70% of women fake orgasms at some point in their sexual lives. Some fake it very regularly -- as in every time -- while others only do it occasionally.
Sex is an important factor to a relationship. Saying this does not make me a nympho. Come on, admit it, bad sex is frustrating and disappointing. Relationships are based on the love between two individuals, so, what's the real difference between giving love and making love?
Faking only makes it worse . . . I understand we might not want to disappoint our guys, but the truth is, lying is an injustice to your man:
- The guy might actually believe he's satisfying you, when actually, what he needs is a little more time (and guidance) in discovering your G-spot. Whether or not you're in a long term relationship, in the future, when someone else is honest with him, he'll get hurt.
- In addition, you are also robbing your partner of a valuable learning experience, and a chance to make improvements.
So, ladies, if you're faking it, please stop!
Our love lives aren't fake or pretentious, why should our love-making be?
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