So I hear that there are several theories out there that explain how humans are attracted to each other. Scientific reasons, pheromones, the whole 'opposites attract' idea...
Well maybe it's all bullshit.
Every time I think I've figured out the mechanisms of guys, they do something that completely proves me wrong. Every time I think I know why they're doing something, it turns out that I over-thought my theory.
Guys are simple. They like things simple.
Girls are simple. They like their men.
Yes, I could sit here on my couch and overanalyze everything he said and how he said it - and then try to come to a conclusion about whether or not he meant it, then figure out what I can do to change things, then try to make a plan of how to change him.
But I'm tired. I have other things to do. I have to listen to good music. I have to chat with my friends. I have to go be happy.
Stop formulating theories. Everyone's different, everyone wants something different.
But I still think that there are basic rules of nature:
1. If a guy can't live without you, he won't live without you.
2. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
3. It really is that simple, so don't screw the rules up.
2 comments:
Let me clarify what Tash meant. When we say, don't screw that up, we mean don't try to fuck up the rules and bother with reasoning yourself out of them.
For example, when we say
"If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay."
It is not your cue to put a pin through a condom, make yourself pregnant, and ask him to stay for the kids.
Keep it uncomplicated. And give him options. That way, you know if he chooses you.
tash! i posted my blog entry just above yours and i didnt see the little picture you put with your blog entry. i love it it's ironic. im having mixed feelings now
girls im sad this blog has been slowing down a bit and its partially my fault, but ill try my best to start publishing again been going through hard times
thanks to you two and jade ofcourse
im feeling much better
love you both
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